We remember this scene: the kid and the kids play with, a fall, children of a grimace, large people will let you into a sugar breaks through his tears; sometimes mud dirty clothes, and even naughty children accidentally tear, a few comforting words of adults, children innocent little hands proffered to a peanut fruit, will let you reproduce the overcast to clear sunny smile. This is the innocent as a child, which is a carefree innocence.
As we slowly grow, gradually moving toward society, the final form families. Support the elderly, work arrangements, family pressure, the child's employment, children's wedding, social competition, interpersonal contacts, etc., are all invaded worry disturb our lives. Frustration, irritability, anxiety and helplessness, and even sadness, despair. The original crystal clear in a heart of a child Zhuangde scarred. In the work, family under the pressure of a double burden, we become old and many, doddering, moving forward with difficulty.
In fact, there are a lot of disappointments in life, we should not too much thought to personal gains and losses, the heart to relax, you will find that your life is always sunny spring.
Work, find someone else's work well, earn their own money too small, to this mountain, looked at the high mountain. Frequent mobility, the result is always contact with an unfamiliar environment, and the relationship between superiors and colleagues have handled it properly, you would be wasted. Smart boss will not quit spotting a loving person. Think you have a young and beautiful young wife, another sensible pair of filial sons and daughters, in this warm family, his wife handed him you only need a cup of warm tea, Duan Shangyi bowl of Rezhou the satisfied. She is a thoughtful, Gu's husband, not a money machine, you still do not know what the foot!
Sometimes, seeing people who lived on the Western-style house to buy a car you are jealous, so, always dream of their own fortune one day. Man, there are always other able men, people's ability to size, opportunity and a different swing fly high, and bring unlimited scenery panoramic view, although the free and easy, Happy, but the risk was great; water buffaloes pulling traffic and the lives of ordinary people tired, but the steady, solid. Well-off life of only a few more romantic, Fan cumbersome Suo, finally in sight can you feel the warmth of home, unpretentious warmth will always be the focus of the family. Do not Jixianduneng, ambitious, so will let you physically and mentally exhausted, physically and mentally exhausted. To have a light hair in a hot, really there's nothing wrong.
Sometimes you suspected her husband pedantry, simple and honest, we should know that no fine and delicious meals nutrition, brown rice, coarse grains, the most nourishing your face, beauty of your youth. Kung Fu do not want style and no substance, live do not want romantic, Haishishanmeng. In your life long journey you will not be lonely, lonely, because no matter you are rich, poor, beautiful, ugly, disease, health, there is always one person with you, holding your hands parallel, he is your husband now. He will always be your life in a nutritional meal to let you happy, make you healthy, protect your peace.
Sometimes, you think of their own weakness, nothing, the future bleak, low self-esteem. Think of a disabled person in the world who think of himself stricker with illness have long been lying in bed you'd rather die a day patient, think about a disaster to bring people's life to death, do you even for a healthy body, there is a perfect family, you have be regarded as one of the lucky ones. People with disabilities still capable of hard life, so that his life replay splendor; patients still capable of tenacious, and disease so deadly struggle. They had to pay several times more than the common people of energy and physical ah! You are a healthy person should attach importance to life, a good grasp of their own every day.
Who wants to happiness, in order to release the pressure every day, you have to retrieve the dead heart of a child. Childlike innocence in the youth in, then the ambition at the heart of a child in, you will always feel young energetic. This requires that you get affordable, Fang Dexia, get upset, thinking that broad, optimistic, cheerful every day.
Philosophical Lotte heart from wide view to the ancients Rong Qi said: "I am happy something is worth too much. Heaven and Earth gave birth to all things that only the most noble person, and I can for others, it is also a music; people treat men and women , I was able for men, which is the second of fun; in our lives we can not see the sun and the moon, not from the infant who would die, and I have 90 years, and he's still strong, which is three of fun; as poverty, human Naishi only human; death Naishi the end of life. Department often to wait for the end, what is not happy then? "The ancients still capable of thinking so honorable man, to see such material and weak to see such a positive life, what else should we can not be relieved of it.
If you just optimistic psychological and emotional troubles will not winding you, as long as the heart relaxed, like a wide asphalt road, are there any trivial chores does not fit? Due to a happy childhood innocence, innocence is a rejection of sadness, longing OK; as long as we put aside the gains and losses, bearish power and profits, beauty and joy every day and you will shake hands